The Difficulty of Speaking Truth in Love in Politics

September 26, 2006 9:37 am

by Will Hinton · 119 comments

I was going to respond to Linda’s many comments about my post yesterday with my own comments but found that I had too much to say. And I believe that Linda has provided me with the opportunity to further delve into some of the issues I discussed in yesterday’s post.

Let me first say that while I would disagree with Linda’s assessement of the condition of politics and Christianity in America, nevertheless, I do not question Linda’s motives. Linda is representative of a small vocal minority that believes they are under attack. I used to feel the same way.

And I used to make the same mistakes that Linda makes in her comments. There is a verse in the Bible that talks of “speaking the truth in love”. As with many things in the Bible, it isn’t always easy to do the right thing. Unfortunately many feel that it is better to err on one side than another. I used to believe that since I couldn’t figure out how to “speak the truth in love”, that I would be better off erring on the side of truth. Of course I ignored the fact that I was intentionally erring.

One of my best friends from college recently reminded me of how I erred on “speaking the truth in love” when I made a girl cry in school during a debate on abortion. And in my desire to “speak the truth”, not only did I not show love but I ignored another truth. I ignored the truth that other people, in fact all people, are made in the image of God and should be afforded tremendous respect and graciousness.

Linda said:

“That is where the scriptures get bent out of shape whne those with political ambitions try to be all things to all people. No offense, Will, but I do see that in your writing. And that is why you are so well received by so many on this blog. You show me in the KJV of the Holy Bible where Jesus altered the scriptures to appease those whom he preached to. I commend you for writing a history of religion in the South, but it is not the place of a politican to change anything which the Lord commands.”

This comment from Linda pretty well illustrates this overarching desire to speak the truth while ignoring love and ironically isn’t even true. I think this also illustrates the primary bone of contention that many people have with Christians as it relates to politics. It is this co-mingling of scripture with particular political stances.

Once again, I can understand this point of view because I used to hold it. I used to believe that almost the entire plaform of the Republican party was rooted in the Bible. Sounds absurd I know. I used to believe that free-market capitalism was absolute truth. While I still believe capitalism to be the best way to help the poor, I don’t hold it as absolute truth anymore.

The interesting thing is that there are few political issues that are so cut and dry as to say with absolute certainty what the correct position is. There are some Christians who would say that it is an absolute truth that prayer should be allowed in schools or that there should be public displays of the Ten Commandments. But it isn’t. To the contrary, the Bible clearly states that Christian should expect to be persecuted. While these aren’t neccessarily example of persecution, I can’t see any justification in the Bible to say that prayer in school is an absolute right. To the contrary, the Bible speaks little if any of “rights”.

Once again, the errors that some Christians make on these issues are born out of good intention. any Christians speak much about the absolute truth of Christianity. And they should. But this focus on “absolute truth” bleeds into other areas that aren’t so absolute. Should Christians help the poor and oppressed? Absolutely. It is commanded in the Bible. But how do we do it? Private charity or through government programs. That is the million dollar question that is worth considering. Of course arguing over the means doesn’t excuse inaction.

As I mentioned in my previous post, I hope and pray that Christians in the public eye will start to show more humility. It is one thing to say that there is absolute truth. It is an entirely different thing to say that one has a complete grasp on what that absolute truth is.

I also hope and pray that politicians in Georgia and throughout the country who claim Christianity would stop using demogoguery and fear to advance their careers. Laws that enable people to say “Merry Christmas” or that allow the public display of the Ten Commandments do little if anything to advance the cause of Christ.

I apologize for the overly religious nature of this discussion but felt that it would be helpful to some to see an insider’s perspective. By and large, Christians in America are not trying to form a theocracy and take over. This ridiculous assertion needs to be defeated once and for all. Christians ARE grappling with how to live out their faith in a changing world that is challenging for all people regardless of belief.

{ 119 comments }

LINDA September 26, 2006 at 5:26 pm

Well Rusty, I have checked out your blog periodically and all I see is photos of you, I assume with few comments. I have few comments on my blog, myself. If you want comments, then post something controversial!

LeftOFLeft September 26, 2006 at 5:29 pm

You have my vote Will!

Bill Simon September 26, 2006 at 6:08 pm

Will, I was thinking of asking you how you felt today after reading the soliloquy of Linda…but, you answered my question before I needed to post it.

It’s okay, Dude…I appreciated reading your commonsense and objective viewpoint.

You might note to Erick that it IS possible to block an IP address…just a thought…

LeftOFLeft September 26, 2006 at 6:14 pm

Oh Bill,

You need not worry your pretty little head, Erick knows of Linda’s writing quite well. She has been the antagonist on his own personal blog for quite a while. I see she really gets under your skin,, doesn’t she dude?

LeftOFLeft September 26, 2006 at 6:16 pm

First Amendment applies to everyone, except those that we disagree with. Yeah we need to amend the amendment!

Bill Simon September 26, 2006 at 6:20 pm

LOL, are you so far left that the spectrum has curved around and you’re actually a Far-Righter? :-)

Bill Simon September 26, 2006 at 6:23 pm

Crazy people have a right to free speech too…but, notice how we provide sanitariums for them to expell their free speech into?

mercergirl September 26, 2006 at 6:24 pm

Linda I am going to say in just a few words what everyone else is thinking here:

You are a self-righteous BITCH.

And by the way-I’m an Episcopalian. You’re narrow minded comments only renforce what has been said here. Now, I will not be making any further comments cause I’ve said my say that’s all I needed to do.

mercergirl September 26, 2006 at 6:25 pm

Sorry misspelling- “your”, been a long day. And now I am done.

LINDA September 26, 2006 at 6:36 pm

Wow, the Episcopalian Church has some messed up Mercer girl in their church. Lord help you girl! You need to take some anger management classes, and I hope you aren’t a graduate student or Lord forbid going to school to be an attorney. I am proud that the Baptists pulled their support of Mercer. Amen!

LINDA September 26, 2006 at 6:37 pm

Jesus said the path to salvation is a narrow path not me!

LINDA September 26, 2006 at 6:38 pm

And you go girl because you will win many hearts and minds to the Lord with your filthy mouth.

LINDA September 26, 2006 at 6:41 pm

Erick,

Do you condone people calling another person a “bitch” on your blog? Is it ok to cuss someone out now, but a sin to say that Jesus’ words are still the truth even today?????

LINDA September 26, 2006 at 6:42 pm

I am ashamed that Mercer University is in Macon, Georgia if this is the kind of students that are enrolled there!

LINDA September 26, 2006 at 6:44 pm

And Bill, my grandfather was the Director of Mental Health in Southern Indiana and he taught me to never call someone “crazy.” I see that you were not afforded the same upbringing in your life, and you throw some pretty disgusting things toward my way. I think you are the biggest bigot on this board and any board that I have ever posted on. So there, put that in your pipe and smoke it!

LINDA September 26, 2006 at 6:48 pm

I venture a bet that 90% of the people on this post today would spit in Jesus face if he came in to their lives this very day because he would be so old fashioned and archaic that you would dismiss him as a lunatic. If he was not driving a fancy car and wearing an expensive suit, you would dismiss him as fraud.

Dorabill September 26, 2006 at 9:46 pm

Just wanted to chime in here. Personally I’m not scared to critisize the Bible (like there’s only 1 version), politicians, or preachers-if they get judgemental, and they’re coming into my living room on TV or the radio. I saw some dude on TV warning against “enemies” and said they will try to add or take away from “the word” which he defined as the NKV version, I believe. Gimme a break. I’m not an expert but I know when someone is trying to “close the way” whether they know it or not.

kspencer September 26, 2006 at 10:06 pm

Linda,

The Jesus I follow said those who are not against Him are with him. The Jesus I follow taught treatment of others through the parable of the wicked servant (Matt 18) and the good samaritan (Luke 10).

Based upon all you have written, I do not think we worship the same God. I will pray for you in the hopes that you will find compassion and mercy for others – that you will be spared the judgment of the servant.

However, I am a mortal man, full of failing. I honestly don’t believe I can resist the temptations of anger and insult in response to the insult and narrow-mindedness you present so frequently. So forgive me, but I shall not be replying to you in the future. To help me resist the temptation, I’ll draft a greasemonkey killfile for peachpundit.

May you find Him where you least expect Him,

Kirk

Administrator September 26, 2006 at 10:09 pm

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